
How can Aromatherapy help?
Touch is a way of communicating, providing comfort and showing that you
care. For those locked in the past, to hold and gently massage the
hands is a way of providing security and a feeling of belonging.
A hand massage is also a way for relatives to interact with their loved
one even if they are no longer recognised, making them feel more
useful and able to contribute to quality of life. A hand massage may
also distract an anxious person unaware of their present surroundings who
may be frustrating other residents or carers with incessant questions or
calling out.
Take care when starting a hand massage with someone with dementia, if
you are wearing a white tunic or uniform, you may be mistaken for a nurse
often associated with an invasive medical procedure. Make sure you
tell your client what you are doing and have the patience to keep
repeating yourself as they will soon forget what you have said.
Select oils with a familiar fragrance as the part of the brain which
stores and processes fragrance memory may still be intact. Oils such
as sweet orange, lavender, rose, mandarin or lemon are always popular, and
you may wish to leave the same blend for other relatives and guests to
use.
While performing the massage, take the opportunity to talk about the
past with your client. They will have fond memories which will still
be vivid despite the deterioration of their short term recent
memories. Try not to keep correcting them if they mistake you for
someone else, neither should you pretend to be someone you are not.
Ignore confusing comments and distract them onto another subject.
The key to successful treatment is patience
and compassion. Take the time to answer each question with respect,
despite being asked the same things over and over again. Remember,
you are treating someone who has a wealth of experience, a life time of
achievement, and a huge amount of memories to share if given the time,
empathy, and dignity they deserve.
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with the elderly or inactive person